Desiderata: A Reflection

-- written by Max Ehrmann in the 1920s --

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible, without surrender,
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even to the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons;
they are vexatious to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain or bitter,
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs,
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals,
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love,
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment,
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be.
And whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life,
keep peace in your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

A very powerful, enlightening poem. Speaks so much of a lot of values and virtues in life that are really important. If we reflect on this poem, we can discern it's profound meaning and apply it to our way of life. It gives us a refreshing perspective on life.... on the more positive way to look at it. That's why a lot of people really like this poem, myself included, because it reminds us to love ourselves more, to just be ourselves, to be optimistic but not idealistic. It's just the way we look at the world inspite of the harsh realities, the ugly truth in life.... there is still good in life.... in the world.... and that is what we should focus on. What's also striking about the poem is that it ignites hope, faith and a joyful attitude. I think if we just religiously instill the meaning of this poem, the world would be a happier place.

What If I Hit The Lotto Jackpot?

You just turned on the TV, listening to the news and there it is on the headlines.... the lotto jackpot just reached over 100 million pesos! Wow, that's a lot of money! And then there you are glued on the TV just like in a trance, so many things running through your mind thinking of the possibilities.... imagining... dreaming.... what if I win that lotto jackpot?! What would I do with the money? You then start thinking of it as the answer to all your problems.

With that money I can do a lot of things, buy my dream house with a luxurious bath tub and if possibly..... my own infinity pool! Additional capital to expand my business, drive my most coveted car, travel with my family within the Philippines, then Asia...and next the world! I can finally secure my son's future and our retirement as well. Donate to charities, pay all my debts (up to the last centavo!), buy all the things that I want without bothering with the price tags! Shopping galore!

Then oops! Back to reality. It's the evening news again and on the headlines..... somebody won the P100million jackpot!!! Your heart starts to pound, your hands are sweating, your eyes pinned on the TV in anticipation....Just then you remembered you haven't bought the lotto ticket! Better luck next time then....Bye-bye to your dreams....for now....for now....